You can pick your friends, but you can't pick your neighbors. If you are lucky, you have good neighbors. But some neighbors are not pleasant and can make your life miserable at times. If you have good neighbors, consider yourself blessed. Neighbors can play an important role in our community and our lives, and remember, you are a neighbor too.
What's a good neighbor?
By definition a neighbor is someone who lives close by you, but "close" is a relative term. For the citydweller, the neighbor is probably someone in the next apartment, but for the urban family, the neighbor is a bit further away. And for those who live out in rural areas, the neighbor may live a mile or two away. But what's a good neighbor? A good neighbor is friendly and considerate. Though good neighbors may live close, they respect your space and privacy. Good neighbors wave at you, may stop to pet your dog and chat, and buy lemonade from your children. Good neighbors take time to talk and smile. They reach out to connect to you.
Good neighbors' actions support community. A good neighbor looks out for others. This idea is illustrated in communities throughout the United States who have developed neighborhood watches. To deter crime and violence neighborhood watches comprised of people who are good neighbors have developed. Their goal is to keep watch on each other's homes so if a burglar is prowling about, or suspicious people are casing out someone's home, a watchful neighbor calls the proper authorities to investigate the situation.
Good neighbors help each other. For example, in my community we sometimes get heavy snowfall. When this happens, younger people in the community go out and shovel for people who are older or who have medical problems that prevent them from shoveling. Also, people help each other when cars get stuck, a common occurrence during the winter months.
Most importantly, good neighbors are respectful. They consider the others who live around them. They avoid keeping others awake with loud parties and barking dogs. They mow their lawns and maintain their property. Thet try to keep their kids to be respectful too.
The Importance of good neighbors.
Good neighbors are important. Hillary Clinton said,"It takes a village to raise a child." Our neighbors are our village. My son knows our neighbors, and I'm glad for that. I'm lucky enough to live in an area where I have good neighbors. My son has had the opportunity to learn from the older gentlemen in the neighborhood, and being exposed to these older men has enriched his life. And they in turn have gotten a lot of joy from associating with my son. My son has also played with and done activities with others in the neighborhood, and through neighbors, he's come to appreciate the idea that we have something in common with everyone. Perhaps sometimes we should focus on our similarities, and not our differences.
Ask yourself, "Am I a good neighbor?" Remember you get what you give. Try to be a good neighbor.
Summary: A good neighbor should have high moral principles and respect the other people that live in his/her community. Such a neighbor would be reliable, respect one's privacy, and never gossip.
To begin with, it is in human nature to need someone when you are in critical situations and sometimes you would like to have someone whom you can turn to when you are in dire need of a piece of advice.Surely, a good neighbor should be that person because he lives near you and if he proves to be reliable, he will help you.For instance, my best friend is my neighbour because she has always been there when I was in trouble and needed someone to discuss with.
Secondly, a good neighbour should respect your intimacy so he should not interfere with your private life if you do not allow him.Most people do not like those who gossip and spread false news about someone.A good neighbor should take into account that everyone has a life and therefore he should not be concerned with what others do.For instance, the neighbours in my neighborhood are old people and,as they do not have jobs and other interesting activities, they are always attentive to what some people do and if they find their actions inappropriate,spread fallacious information about those persons.This situation is preposterous and as far as I am concerned, these gossipers should mind their own business and not judge anyone because they do not have this right.
In conclusion, a good neighbour is that person that has high moral principles and respect the other people that live in his community.After all, people should try to accept eachother and,subsequently, adjust to the conditions that the statute of a good neighbour imply.
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